I was reading my All Pro Dad email for the day and it provided a list that I thought was interesting, thought provoking, and convicting. I'll copy it below. I'm man enough to admit that there are a few of these that require some work on my part. There are also a few that require a lot of work on my part. But, I think this provides a good framework for a man who is trying to be the husband God requires us to be. Enjoy! As a sidenote, If you are a man and a husband/father, I would recommend joining the All Pro Dad email list. Each day they send out a thought provoking and insightful email blast about how to be a good husband and father. Good stuff.
25 characteristics of a husband who truly loves and serves the needs of his wife
By: Dr. Robert Lewis
1. Includes his wife in envisioning the future.
2. Accepts spiritual responsibility for his family.
3. Is willing to say "I'm sorry" and "Forgive me" to his family.
4. Discusses household responsibilities with his wife and makes sure they are fairly distributed.
5. Seeks consultation from his wife on all major financing decisions.
6. Follows through with commitments he has made to his wife.
7. Anticipates the different stages his children will pass through.
8. Anticipates the different stages his marriage will pass through.
9. Frequently tells his wife what he likes about her.
10. Provides financially for his family's basic living expenses.
11. Deals with distraction so he can talk with his wife and family.
12. Prays with his wife on a regular basis.
13. Initiates meaningful family traditions.
14. Initiates fun family outings for the family on a regular basis.
15. Takes the time to give his children practical instruction about life.
16. Manages the schedule of the home and anticipates pressure points.
17. Keeps his family financially sound and out of harmful debt.
18. Makes sure he and his wife have drawn up a will.
19. Lets his wife and children into the interior of his life.
20. Honors his wife in public.
21. Explains sex to each child in a way that gives them a wholesome perspective.
22. Encourages his wife to grow as an individual.
23. Takes the lead in establishing sound family values.
24. Provides time for his wife to pursue her own personal interests.
25. Is involved in a small group of men dedicated to spiritual growth.
1 comments:
I'd say you're doing better than most husbands in many respects. The important part of any job, whether husband, wife, child, boss, worker or just plain alone is learning obedience to God in every matter and being submissive to the authority you've been placed under regardless of what you think of that authority.
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