My wife is amazing. I watched her deal with a couple very difficult situations during the last week and she handled it with poise, grace, and maturity. I, on the other hand, was angry. I wanted to lash out, inflict pain, and destroy anyone who would dare attack my wife in such a manner. Especially since these attacks were completely unwarranted. These were attacks that had their roots almost 12 years ago. But, these people just can't forgive and move on. They hold on to their bitterness and their anger. Yes, my wife made a couple mistakes years ago in these situations. But, she apologized and tried her best to make amends. Sometimes, people would rather hold on to the pain and bitterness, rather than accept a heartfelt apology and move on. I honestly couldn't believe the immaturity and lack of personal accountability that I was witnessing by these people. Seriously, this is junior high stuff. But, my wife handled the whole thing with peace, grace, and maturity. I was impressed. Me, however, I'm still seething. I guess it's the protective husband in me.
On an related note, this Thanksgiving, I am thankful for our dear friends. We have some amazing friends and I am so very thankful for everything that they are, and everything that they do (and don't do). Thanks friends!
4 comments:
This last week, God has been showing me that I cannot control the actions of others and that God will deal with those issues. It's easy for me to get bogged down in earthly matters that actually belong to the Lord. I'm learning to put on blinders that focus my attention on my love relationship with Jesus and in my obedience, I am blessed.
Those other people are only hurting themselves with their pettiness. It hardens their hearts away from the one thing that will change them - Jesus! Joi did the right thing. Love them in spite of themselves and continue to walk in love and obedience knowing that God is pleased with you for trying!
It was tough, and I am still dealing with the issues, but God is good. His grace is sufficient for me! :) Thanks for being my protector! I love you!
Evan Almighty! :) What's my prize? :)
You know I only know Joi through your blog posts but I know you and know what a wonderful and kind man you are so it is only logical to believe she would be as wonderful and kind as you. Try not to dwell too much on it they obviously aren't worth it but yay you for loving and wanting to protect her that is whyat a good husband does. He protects his family. :)
Post a Comment